Alright folks, I am doing something radically different this
year for Thanksgiving and I have to be honest…I could not be more excited about
it. I’m ditching the stress of the large family gathering and going a healthier,
more intimate route by organizing my own take on the perfect holiday;
Friendsgiving Day. I know there are folks out there that have done this in the
past, but this really is the first year I am taking the leap and owning how I
want to spend this day of gratitude.
On the agenda for the day? An AMAZING dinner menu at BLT
Steak at the Ritz Carlton in Charlotte (see photo above for the array of
deliciousness). At the table? My best buddy from Austin and a few other friends
that will be joining in on the fine dining, locally sourced organic foods and
NO dishes when it’s all over. Don’t get me wrong, I love my family. But what I
don’t love is the unhealthy food traditions, arguments over why the turkey is
taking so long and who forgot to bring the whipped cream and a whole host of
other stressful moments that take place even when you have the most normal of
families.
This holiday diversion really represents what I have been
striving for all year with my Project Revive mission. A new take on things, a
healthier outlook and taking a few moments to pamper myself in a way that’s meaningful
to me. I will own that I felt guilty about this decision for a few days, only
natural given my people-pleaser mentality. However, once I gave myself
permission to break with tradition and do what’s best for me, all that guilt
just faded away. I’m looking forward to a top 10 meal and amazing company on
Friendsgiving Day. Can’t wait to share updates from this new adventure!
It can be very hard to break from tradition, or if you prefer, to start a new tradition. But your family still was able to have it their way, you just weren't there. And do you think that maybe some of them were jealous of your daring? Not that you need anyone's permission but your own, but remember they always tell you on the plane to put on your own mask before helping others.
ReplyDeleteI hope it was delicious and just what you wanted!