Social Sass: Connect the Dots!

Facebook Friends For Real! Love you C-Money and John Pie!

 As I shared in my most recent post, I visited DC for a long weekend to visit friends and to tour a few graduate school programs. What I didn’t share was for the first time I decided to test out social media as my main vehicle for connecting the dots with everyone I wanted to see when I was in town. I know, it sounds a little strange not to send an email or place a call. But does it REALLY sound that weird? With the plethora of mobile devices in everyone’s hands social communities like Facebook, Twitter and more are as frequently accessed as email or text. So I figured, why not? The worst thing that could happen was I’d spend my long weekend touring the sights on my own. 

This next part might sound mildly creepy, but I spent a few days before my trip scanning the pages and tweets of the folks I knew I wanted to spend time with. Were they going out of town or traveling for work? Did any of them have birthdays, weddings or baby showers to attend? Amazingly, I was easily able to narrow down my larger list to the friends I knew would be in town and hadn’t publicized any plans yet. Next step was firing off a handful of Facebook messages sharing when I would arrive, my plans for school visits and soliciting some good old fashioned hang-outs (the non-Google+ kind clearly). Before I knew it I had lunch plans, dinner plans, brunch plans, coffee plans and a trip that was overflowing with friends all connected by social media. I made sure to check in at my locations, post pics and I was delighted to see how many friends followed my journey along the way even though they couldn’t be there with me to enjoy it. Now, full disclosure, I did send a few texts to folks to let them know I was running late or to confirm an address…but we’re talking 5 or 6 at most. Everything else? Social Sass, baby. Who knew…

Live From our Nation's Capital!

First and foremost, sincere apologies for the pregnant pause since my last post! I’ve been traveling non-stop for work so things have been a little nutty with work and school. With that out of the way, I just spend an amazing weekend re-connecting with my former hometown, Washington DC. To say it was a blast would be a profound understatement! 

Beyond visiting some of my favorite places I had an amazing meal with a dear friend at a restaurant called Elizabeth's Gone Raw. A swanky, raw, vegan restaurant on L Street just past 14^th Street, dinner was one of my top 10 dining experiences. For those of you unfamiliar with the raw food movement, it features unprocessed vegan foods that are never cooked over 115 degrees Fahrenheit. Those loyal to the movement believe that cooking above these temps causes foods to lose their enzymes and much of their nutritional value. Conversely, raw foods are rich in living enzymes and, believe it or not, COMPLETELY delicious. The meal featured a 5 course tasting menu with delicious treats like almond pot stickers, celery and apple sorbet, zucchini pasta with raw, rye bread croutons and a cashew, raw chocolate tart for dessert. All accompanied by an organic wine pairing. Yum-O!

I also had a chance to catch up with one of my best girlfriends at Baked & Wired in Georgetown. A foodie bakery favorite, I sipped on an exotic bean cappuccino and nibbled on a cheddar jalapeño biscuit all while chatting it up in the warm winter sun. People watching and conversational perfection! While I love Charlotte, I have yet to find a place like this that offers such a funky flare to its neighborhood constituents. One in a million for sure!

More to come on the visit this week, but I will leave you with this…road trip, fun and friends and I still lost 2.5 lbs. Yeah, I’m that good.

Social Sass: Remember When?

For all its amazing advantages, connecting with friends old and new, learning from influencers, participating in the great debates of our time, I have to go on record saying that I miss some of the offline magic I used to take for granted. Case in point? The picture above. I stepped away from my desk at work today to grab coffee and to pop in on a conference call and came back to a plain old post it note from one of my besties. Just a simple sentiment inquiring after…well it’s evident from the post-it. And it occurred to me that with all this technology including Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest, I can’t remember the last time I just wrote someone a note. Life is so busy I often choose text or instant messaging to meeting for coffee or lunch.  I hit the like button in favor of stopping by someone’s desk to congratulate them. I comment on a blog rather than commenting at the real life water cooler. I am sure we all do this without even thinking these days. 

Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t trade the fun of social media for anything. I just have to wonder what real-time connections we’re missing out on because we don’t take a break now and then to write one of our buddies a cute little note (This one made my day in case you couldn’t tell). For example, how much people watching do we miss in a restaurant because we’re so busy taking photos of our food and checking in with a status update?  Are we so busy tweeting from a concert that we forget to watch the band? Granted I am sprinkling a little dramatic fairy dust here to make a point, but this little note did something for me today besides make me smile. It reminded me that I need to walk over to a friend and give them real, live thumbs up once in a while and revel in the real-time-offline conversation that we all took for granted once upon a time.

Loving lakeside....

While there are many things I miss about my former hometowns of DC and SF, it's quiet moments by the water here on Lake Wylie that are truly good for the soul. 

Social Sass - Knowledge is Power

Continuing my series on Social Sass, I wanted to talk a little bit about the bevvy of research one can conduct via social media. Personally, I have scoured a wide variety of blogs, Facebook pages and influencers to glean advice and know how on a variety of topics. From food to fun to fashion, this research has had a HUGE impact on the success of my weight loss and lifestyle reboot. 

When I first started PR, I had enough bad eating bad eating habits to fill a bus. However, when I began to poke around for information on how others have overcome their challenges, I found a number of helpful hints, inspirational stories and recipe ideas to lift me out of the rut I was in. I also had NO idea how I was going to look halfway decent while I was dropping weight. As trivial as that sounds, feeling good and looking good are closely tied. I am not talking about looking good in a shallow way; I am talking about presenting oneself in a manner that lets others know you respect yourself and that you care. Needless to say there are a plethora of blogs out there from style fanatics in every size and shape. I was so inspired by the brave women who were strutting their stuff and sharing their passion for fashion. I also leveraged social media for ideas on travel, fun activities and vision boarding. I love a good goal as much as the next gal, but I am also very visual; I needed to SEE what my options were. Through the many travel blogs, DIY blogs and more, I was able to paint a very clear picture for myself of where I wanted my life to take me. 

I’ll be honest, when I started this gig I thought social media was more about random Facebook posts and videos of cats playing with string. I could not be more pleasantly surprised by the power of the medium and just how much it has helped me along my journey. Here’s a sampling of some of my favorite knowledge sources discovered on this road less traveled...

Conde Nast Daily Traveler 

Whole 9 Life 

GabiFresh 

Hello Pumpkin

I always know its fall when my beloved orange beauties begin to dominate the farm stands and grocery store produce aisles. I've loved them since I was a kid and that has never faded. Something about them takes me back to those precious childhood days of excitement and magic leading up to Halloween. Now I get to see Halloween through the eyes of my 8 year old nephew and experience the joy all over again. So here's to you pumpkin. The most sincere member of the squash family. 

Social Sass - Accountability Anyone?

One of my favorite things about blogging, and reading other blogs that inspire me, is the sense of accountability putting something in writing installs in a situation. Sure you can delete or edit or whatever other form of digital cover-up you might wish to perform, but truth be told once you’re out there with something? You’re out there. That thought used to really scare me, and if I am being even more honest, held me back from blogging for a long time. Don’t believe me? Here’s a sampling of neurotic thoughts that ran through my head when I tried to convince myself not to start this journey…

What if I fail along the road to my goal?

What if I don’t have time to blog for a week? Two weeks?

What if nobody reads the damn thing?

What if someone DOES read it and I say something that pisses them off?

The truth is all of the above HAS happened along my road to revival and I have survived. Social media has given me support and held me accountable in a way doing this in the dark never could. The beauty of it is we’re all in the same boat when it comes to social fear! My favorite bloggers go a few days without checking in, some of them even share ideas I don’t agree with and they are still going strong. They’re out there with it for better or for worse and I learn something each day from them. I have a handful of favorites like What I Wore that keep me inspired, and I always try and support friends who share their hopes and dreams like Rock-A-Bye Bradbury. Bottom line, I am so proud I took the leap and started this little blog despite my fears. Accountability is a true social force for good. Here’s hoping more of us take the leap.